JV'S
KILLER POKER:
RIGHT MIND
BY:
John Vorhaus
You're in the third hour of an otherwise
unremarkable hold'em session when you
pick up pocket tens on the button. It's
folded around to you and you raise. The
small blind folds and the big blind calls.
You have a confident read on your opponent:
This guy won't defend his blind with just
nothing, even if he puts you on a pure
steal. So when the flop comes 9-6-2, you
like your hand a lot. You bet for value.
Your opponent calls. The turn is a 4,
which doesn't scare you because you know
the big blind won't have gotten this deep
into the hand with swill like 5-3. You
bet again, fully expecting your opponent
to lay it down now, but he calls. What
could he have? A good nine? If he had
a set, you'd have heard about it by now.
The
river is a queen. The big blind checks
and you check too, because a queen is
an overcard he could easily have held
and hit. Sure enough, he turns over the
winning hand of A-Q and takes the pot.
You
replay the hand quickly in your head and
emerge from your brief analysis satisfied
that you played every street correctly,
from your preflop raise to your river
check. But something about the hand irks
you. Your foe called all the way with
just overcards. Does he not respect you?
What does a guy have to do around here
to get these mooks to fold?! That
thing that irks you is now like a raspberry
seed stuck in your tooth. The more you
think about it, the more it bothers you.
It's hard enough to play correctly, you
tell yourself, but when you play absolutely
correctly and end up suffering for others'
mistakes, well, damn, that's just not
fair.
A subtle shift has taken place in your
thinking. For one thing, you have mentally
accused your opponent of having made a
mistake when, in fact, his play may have
been correct. He held A-Q, after all.
You could easily have been on a pure steal
and even if you weren't, he still had
outs. If anything, he might have played
the hand too weakly; the river bet went
begging, after all. But that's not the
problem.
The problem is you've swapped thoughtful
analysis for righteous indignation. Your
thinking is now colored by your mood.
In an otherwise unremarkable hold'em session,
you have reached a cusp. If you don't
get your mind right here, the whole session
could go right down the drain. If you
continue to dwell on mistakes -- and not
even your mistakes -- you run the
risk of blowing a hole in your concentration
and pouring your chips through it.
Let's say you pass the test. You shrug
off the loss and play the next hand. Lo
and behold, you get pocket aces -- and
they don't hold up. Next hand, pocket
kings -- and they don't hold up either!
Now you've been hit by a devastating combination
of punches. You're suffering at the hands
of other players' decisions and also the
capricious whims of luck. Your steely
discipline is in vapors now. All you can
think about is how damn much you hurt.
When
this happens, you lose. Win or lose, you
lose, because as soon as you start to
process your pain, you've left your right
mind behind and entered the realm of feeling.
You're suffering, and when you're suffering
you shift your focus from playing perfect
poker to wondering why the universe is
so unfair. On the conscious level, of
course, you know that the universe is
not unfair. You know that you're just
experiencing a short-term setback. Nevertheless,
you are experiencing that setback,
and you're experiencing it on an emotional
level, in an emotional way. You are, in
other words, feeling the moment
rather than thinking the moment.
Once your situation starts to affect your
mood, performance suffers and further
bad outcomes may result. It's a vicious
cycle:
--
You get in a bad mood.
-- Your mood affects your play.
-- You make inferior decisions.
-- You get bad outcomes.
-- Your bad mood gets worse.
And
so on.
Nor
does it necessarily take a bad beat to
put you in a bad mood. I remember once
in the early, early days of my playing
career -- I had just graduated from $1-2
to $2-4 -- when I took a break from playing
to check the messages on my answering
machine at home. The news was not good:
A lawsuit I thought had been settled turned
out not to be settled and suddenly a $10,000
obligation hung over my head. I went right
back into that $2-4 game and blew off
a hundred bucks. That's how upset I was!
You
might say I had my priorities screwed
up, and you might be right. The ten grand
was theoretically much more important
to me than the $100. But thinking
about that ten grand, feeling the
pain of it, cost me a hundred dollars
I didn't need to lose.
The
memory haunts me still.
Which
is, of course, exactly where I go wrong.
There's
nothing wrong with holding onto memories
of plays that didn't work out. There's
certainly nothing wrong with holding onto
the memory of mistakes we've made, for
that's how we avoid making those mistakes
the next time. But if we hold onto feelings,
if we hold onto regret, if we carry
these emotions even from one hand to the
next, we don't have right mind and we
can't expect to win.
For
success in hold'em, then (or for that
matter in poker or for that matter in
life), do this: Focus on how you do,
not on how you feel. That's the
path to right mind, and the path to profit,
too.
(John Vorhaus is author
of the KILLER POKER series and News Ambassador
for UltimateBet.com.)
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